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Getting subconsciously rid of the parts that you don't like in you're life

Sat Sep 25, 2010 3:40 PM EDT
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Getting subconsciously rid of the parts that you don't like in you're life is one of those things that very easily happens when you are trying to make you're self doing something that you don't want to do, but you kind of have to.

Also one may have something in they're bodies that they subconsciously want to get rid of, even thou they don't really want that with common sense, because everybody knows that somethings are not to be taken off, whether you like them or not.

The thing you want to get subconsciously off from you're life, can be what ever, it can be like hobby or a work, maybe relationship or some object or item that you kind of need and you should keep it, but you don't want that. In that kind of situations it is quite easily so, that you subconsciously end up getting rid of it in some way that you don't need to face that actual decision of getting rid of it.

Maybe you have a hobby that makes you're life better in many ways, but at the same time you hate that actual hobby or something relating to it. With situation like that, it is possible that you subconsciously do something that creates a situation where you're out from that hobby for good, without actually doing it in a way that you clearly admit to you're self that you make that decision.

You may also have a tooth in you're mouth that doesn't look as you would like it to look, you may end up accidentally or some other way like that getting rid of it, even thou you know that you should keep it, because you need it, and the fact that it's gone is really bad for you, and it is not helping you at all in anyway.

We all know the story of that useless ugly item in somebody home that somebody close to that person or so gave, but the person who has it, hate it in many ways. It is gift from someone, and you need to keep it, but you don't want that, and it is making you feel miserable. It can really happen that purely by accident, that item gets to be broken or lost, in away that person who had it, really didn't feel like making it on purpose. That can really happen, and it can very well be done by subconsciously matters, without you knowing it at all.

Also in a relationship that is very good in many ways, you may feel like that you want something else, but because the relationship you have is so good, you at the same time want to keep it and know that it really is good for you. In cases like that you may desire something else and because of that you subconsciously do or not do something that creates a situation where you're relationship is over or where it is more easier to end intentionally.

You may also have a work that is really giving you a good salary and benefits and even more good things, but you want to do something else. If doing that something else is really bad choice and you really need that good job you have, you may subconsciously do something that creates a situation where you are out of that good job you have, and therefore free to do what you really want to do in you're live. That can happen even thou you can't financially afford that to happen, you're brains can subconsciously do that for you if you feel bad in that good salary job you have, but you want something else.

Besides knowing that things like these happens, we can keep that in mind and handle these things little bit differently, that way we can be by making right decisions and being careful, avoid those maybe very bad things to happen. And of course it is clearly better for one to make those choices by them selves than letting things go maybe quite wrong because the problem is denied. It is better to face the facts voluntarily and making the most of it, than letting things go bad by not facing the facts.

That way we all get the absolute best we can, and our whole live is worth living and is as good for us as it can be. Trying really more than is possible is never good for anybody who does that, because too much is really too much, that creates situation where the reality with all the facts is either denied completely in a hope that it would go well, or at least twisted in a very harmful way, that makes things bad for who ever is doing it, and all the work goes to waste.

We should all always face the facts and use them as our weapons to success, not the other way around, where we would be twisting fact in our minds and then making bad mistakes without change to actually get success.

True success comes from knowing how things really are, and coming up with real solutions to all the problems. When you ad right timing and some work to that package, you get the success that is possible to get in a reality. That is what is forth doing in this world, and that is what we should be doing.

It is also one thing, that of course one may feel better for a while by denying facts, but that only makes the things worse as long as it continues. The way up is to face reality and do what in necessary to do. That is true that also in these cases ones subconsciously may cheat them selves to believe things are differently than they really are, but that just one of those things that we should never do, because it is only making it worst, to go for better, is to face facts and make solutions based on that.

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