Power Sharing

Giving power to people can can lead in to the situation, where those people, even thou you can trust them in other ways, are getting piss of, for what ever reason, and misuse that power and influence given to them.

That is not because they want to harm you or them selves, it is just common fact what happens if things are in wrong way for long time in a roll. So even thou you can keep you're self calm and don't do anything inappropriate, there is a change, that if you have been giving you're close ones power to influence thing or something like that, they might do something you would not do you're self.

That is completely humanly thing to do in that kind of situation, but it is still not nice for that person who has been giving that power to influence on them. That is because sense that person would not use that power himself (or her self) for that kind of use, it is not nice to get blamed for giving that power to that people (or those people), or getting blamed for causing that situation by giving that power to that person (or persons).

But anyway it really seems, that the person who has been giving that power to that person (or persons) pretty much gets the blame for it. Of course i can understand that, but i think that if there is a real justified reason for that person doing something, to do what she (or he) does. It should not be like that.

I think that it is perfectly normal, that people want to help people who are close to them. I think that it should be understood.

But anyway, even thou we have more power sense we share it with each other and help each other, in situations like the one i just describe it is not always nice. That is of course good thing that people care about me or each other, or someone, so much that act the way they act, or do what they do to make things better. I appreciate that good point in it, but it is also a problem in cases where that thing getting done, is kind of wrong.

I don't think that we would have any real problems with this or other things, everything has been done as should. But i would say in general level for people sharing power with someone (or someones), that it is before doing that, good thing to think about that fact, that all of us are not so calm human beings, as some are. And that can lead in some unwanted circumstances in to the situation that i was writing about, where those people who are not so calm, are either trying to, or really miss using that power given to them, because they cant stand that unwanted situation.

But of course before sharing any power (or basically anything at all) with anyone (or any-ones), you need to know you can trust them in general. Other wise it would be not good idea, to do so.

Of course there is a lot of good things in shearing power with other people, it gives you possibility to live much better live than you would live other wise, and it makes you able to do way more good things in life, personal, business,work and what ever area of life.

And it also makes you're live much more safer, than it would be other wise, because all the ''members'' can help each others in that area of live too.

So that thing in general is very good, but i was just explaining some very rear thing that can happen in not wanted situation, and that single thing is not so nice. But still it is kind of act of love, what comes to it's bases. Because the point is to help someone you care about, and it is intended to make for example my life better.

That really is perfectly humanly thing to do.

But anyway, i was just explaining that little thing, that kind of is problem (at least in some parts of it, there is those little problems).

Everything in general is of course good.