Lying in a relationship is bad thing for example because, if you lie to people with things that you do or where you going or what you do in general. Then you're creating an situation where you in reality are different human, than what you have said to people close to you.
Because of that you don't care so much about that person you have said you are, and that is because you know that you are not really that person. But the problem is, that people close to you may not know that. And because of that they can sense that you don't care about that person you have pretend to be so much, and that makes them wonder why.
It also leads in to the situation where you don't basically benefit or care or sense, much about how people close to you feel about you, that is due the fact that you're not really who you said you are.
Even thou the person is totally same in many cases, that small difference that comes from lying what you do, or where you're going, creates that small difference anyway.
Then when you are different human , you don't feel, care or sense enough things about other people like you should, and things can go bad.
One worst case scenario is that you're companion starts to feel for some reason, that real you, is some different person. And by doing so creates some harm to that person. Then you're pretty easily in a situation where you have unintended troubles, created by you're companion, not knowing it was you who will got those troubles.
Something like that can very easily happen, and it is not nice.
Things like this are mostly important to keep in mind, if you are for what ever reason, in a kind of situation, where it is kind of required to lie about something.
So i don't mean like just cheating here, which is totally different thing, i mean any lying in general.
This is also one of those reasons, why people should always tell the truth, even thou it of course can be, that sometimes it would seem a nice thing to do, to lie.




